Friday, June 20, 2008

Paula White's Divorce

Paula White is a inspiration to all women who have endured horrific pain in their lives and has struggled to over overcome them. The example of her testimony enables others to understand that you don’t have to wallow in your sorrows and hurts; just put one foot in front of the other and move forward.

I often watch Paula’s television show to listen to her wisdom on sexual and physical abuse because I too came from that similar background. Trust me when I say, it is not easy to fight those constant reminders of relatives/ people who betray you in the worst way. In my opinion, for Paula White to hold no bitter resentment and to except the Gospel of Jesus Christ at the age of eighteen, demonstrate that she’s a true child of God.

Randy and Paula’s divorce is very shocking to the Christian community because we look to our leaders to set the example for us to follow. Sometimes the church wants their preachers to be immortal and immune to human behaviors, but think about it who really needs a Pastor that hasn’t experienced problems of any kind? To me, this proves that Paula and Randy are normal human beings who face the same issues as all society does.

It was very commendable of them to announce their personal marital problems with their congregation. I understand if they’re not ready to address the television viewers of “Without Walls Ministries” and the world about the break downs and mistrusts in their marriage. I would suggest, to the followers of Randy and Paula White to allow them to gather their thoughts and heal from whatever disputes they may have.

It is very unfair to the Whites to imply all these accusation towards marital infidelities. How can we question any biblical grounds of adultery if Paula and Randy haven’t discussed what their problems were?

This is an outrage to accuse them of backstabbing God and their members without any proof. Especially when their history has been nothing, but putting positive words and energy into the world. I am confident in whatever trials that they are enduring that God has the answers and He will help them through it. So, relax and let them gather the strength to talk about their tribulations and become testimonies on how to undergo divorce in the body of God!

I am sadden by Paula’s divorce, but I comprehend that sometimes people who join in the union of marriage realize that they no longer share the same love as they once did. If there is adultery involved, this is for God to judge and not a fellow human being (Deuteronomy 32: 36)! My prayers go out to Randy and Paula White.

4 comments:

Unknown said...

Someone acclaimed to be an authority on God, but cannot through the supernatural power of God keep their marriage together, sheds serious doubt on the reality of God. If a christians life is not destined to be different than one in the world, who needs a God who does not make a difference. Unless Paula wanted a divorce!!

Unknown said...

If there was adultery then divorce is a option.
I find it sad that the body of Christ would look at divorce as normal. When we attend weddings we are charged with aiding in the union, not just viewing the ceremony. As a minister we are held to a higher level of judgement, and should be. We should take our responsibility to the body of Christ seriously and not allow worldliness in our home. Divorce should never be an option, but our merciful father allowed it because of our hardness of heart.
I am going to share that I am divorced. After much praying, fasting and praying some more, I left my husband's house. He asked me to leave, and he was committing adultery. Our marriage was not normal from the start. I will not elaborate, but I can say that divorce made me feel so broken. Spiritually........ I felt lost.
One day, God poured into my spirit, that I was not bound. Then I was whole again.
Divorce injures the church, our families, and us.
This must stop. Divorce is not ok.

We must accept that we sometimes we marry before asking God.
I married a man that God himself told me not to. I was not spiritually mature, and thought that he would change. We should pray about all things, and accept the answer.

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Goddess Angel said...

Seamus: at the end of the day; we are humans who deserve happiness.

Jan: good for you! We only live once; why not enjoy life to the fullest. If being married is a source of pain; let it go. The Creator wants His children to experience someone who takes their Help Mate feeling into consideration.