Self Management

Building ones character starts with self management. Eventually, God holds every spirit responsible for their life. He has giving us many tools to help guide us in the right way. The bible is Gods number one joy because it holds every right and wrong decision human being every made. Also, the scripture holds God’s opinion on every deed his creation experienced.

Lets take a moment to reflect on Joshua in The Old Testament. After Moses purpose was fulfilled God chose Joshua to continue to teach and lead His people in the right direction. The Israelites were definitely infants in thought ,they needed to recondition their minds in harmony with the life style and action that represented God.

Therefore, it is very important to self intervene early in life in order to gain self management, other wise the odds will be stack against you. Survival is hard in the real world because each person must have the proper training to make promotion of any kind. No matter what stages a person is in, it's never to late to intervene and apply God's way of life. It is our duty to help build our character of self management and to create a strong human being who will be able to handle countless disappointments in life.

Children are the rawest form of God, the ability to transmit self management is very easy. For instance, kids are a blank sheet of paper just waiting for their pages to be filled. Parents, can create different situation for their children to test their ability on how well they can handle all kinds of disappointments that life will throw at them.

Parents, explain to your children that you would like to apply some essential life's lessons that will equip them to deal with life’s curve balls. You can apply these lessons in a game like format because it will create a fun learning environment. Children are often honest in their emotion and show how they are feeling.

Moreover, if your child can't handle not always getting what he/she want and show signs of problems with not being in the spot light at all times and have problems with respecting others, this can be an early sign of correcting self management. Noticing these characteristic will let you know what correction management your child need in order to better their odds of becoming well rounded adults and leaders. Hopefully, this will carry them throughout life and help them remain loyal Christian in a society that don't often represent the behavior that Jesus Christ displayed.

Building self management in our youth need to be taught by experience concerning their action and emotions. Sometimes teenagers can be unaware of how their words can damage each other and they are easy to be provoked without thinking. It is important for them to be taught how not to let their anger get the best of them and not to take revenge into their own hands. Teens, need to partake in community and charitable work that involve Christian’s behavior being display at all times. This type of demonstration connects emotional attachments which leads to breaking down and building up character. Teenagers need to be taught how to deal with others without flying off the handle when things are said or done that they don't like.

Lets take a moment to reflect on Samuel in the Old Testament, he was chosen to minister before the Lord, even though he was a lade. Samuel's early lessons in life displayed self management on how to be a living witness for God, he remained a faithful leader that played a vital roll in establishing God's kingdom.

Our youth must grow up with God's words embedded in their hearts, so that they can be a positive citizen of social order. Engaging with each others in the public will ultimately benefit them in their place of work , family, relationship and clergyman ship. Listening to their ups and downs will let you know what they need help with when it comes to dealing with the real world. This will definitely build self worth and a well managed individual.

Adults need less involvement with the real world and more self evaluation management. We all know that the work place can be a bit of a challenge trying to provide for your family while dealing with co- workers, who may not be as polite as you want them to be. Sometimes there can be so much mayhem in our lives, that the only way to stop ourselves from flying off the handle is to apply self management and resist a uncomfortable boiling argument.

Our homes should be a place where we can rest and unload our problems to help build self management to face the world another day. Many adults have situation that stem from their childhood that have not been resolved. Adults often need the most help with self management because they often have a lot of bad residue collected over the years. We desperately need to figure out our problems and learn how to get back on course of achieving organization in our lives. Action and reaction plays a big part with adults, since they don't have to answer to anyone, the level of discipline is sometimes hard to contain. Managing our emotion when it comes to daily conversations, will reinforce how it's okay to have a difference of opinion without developing hate towards one another.

Stereotyping also needs to be apart of self management because it can lead to negativity being past on from generation to generation. Correction of ones self should be a daily ritual like washing our face because it will instantly release a happier person who will be better equipped to serve God Almighty and to input positively in our society. Adults lessons have to be about a renewing of the mind as well as how to manage an ungodly world. It is important to attack our root which is our mind and to tear limb from limb the refurbishing and rethinking of our thoughts, so that we can enhance self management.

All in all, people can use these kinds of mind provoking techniques to expand various self management benefits. Eventually, every one has to learn that in order to receive God's blessing we must dig deep into our soul and pull out the best. God is very gracious and he allows his creation the ability to make mistakes in hopes that we learn from them ( 1 Peter 1: 6-7). The human race have to train themselves to fight the enemy who often tries to destroy our self worth! Children is our generation, the youth is our future and adults is the example of leadership and change.